Take For Granted vs Take Advantage

Hari ni kita bercakap tentang "Take For Granted".

For me, I hate most of the people who have that kind of attitute. Suka mengambil kesempatan atas kebaikan / keburukan seseorang. These people are actually the "fire starter" of any kind of fights, arguments, dissatisfaction..etc. No examples required in order for me to describe, it's everywhere around us. Budak kecik pun paham agaknye maksud " Mengambil kesempatan". By the way, "Mengambil kesempatan" tak sama dengan "Mengambil Peluang" (Take advantage). Both are defined differently in a way that Mengambil Kesempatan is "-" while the latter is "+".

I really hope these people will change their attitude the way it should be. Coz it doesn;t matter how old are u, how matured you are, how excellent you are, it can attacks you .It is really irritating , painful and later becomes hatred for the "victims". And all of sudden, the"victims" will "memendam" dan later on "membenci".

And for all i know, I was one of the "victim", i became " memendam" and now i am "membenci".
Sampai bila..?
Tak tahu la....

p/s: sorry for my broken english.. hehehe